Having interacted informally with a client of mine, I have been
getting weak signals of his need for help even over a whatsapp chat. Having met
him after some time, I realized that he was unsuccessfully trying to cover up
and pose as if everything was fine, and even assuring me of recommending my
services to the client ‘who may need it’. After my presentation, he subtly
mentioned that he is passing through a bad patch, yet not completely opening up
about his need to explore an engagement.
There may be many such individuals who are bottled up similar to
this case, while the need is to seek out and ask for help. While some believe
they are fine, they can do it by themselves and their resources, others have
some auspicious day, or month on calendar to begin. More than anything else,
such people have to overcome fear of change, and the demands such change may
require. Remaining in a state of inertia or denial only makes things steeper,
deteriorating self esteem and self worth, building undue negativity. I strongly
recommend that one initiates a change than responding or reacting to what is
likely to happen later.
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