I have been wondering for last few years, recalling
many I knew, and what has been the common thread that was visible among a vast
majority. It took me to arrive at only one word, and that is “Ridicule”. This
is one such negative behaviour that tries to run down someone else’s efforts or
results and dilutes it by creating a pre-conceived perceptual block to avoid
break their internal inhibitions. These may be out of complexes, insecurities
or comfort zones, that people tend to oversee the results of being appreciative
of any such interpersonal opportunities.
Such dysfunction tends to build a strong and sticky
wall as a barrier to learning and change, even if were to be beneficial for
such individuals. These become repetitive reactions and many a times, knowing
that ridiculing shall not do any good, they still end up ridiculing, for, their
subconscious minds get trained to respond like that.
It is common to see this behaviour through casual
body language, overconfidence, avoidance and pre-matured judgement or
inferences. It is imperative to be mindful of such sticky behaviours and work
consciously to manage them well in time before they begin to inflict damage to
overall personality. Want to know more and willing to work on it? Call
9893222222 or visit www.thegrowthevangelist.com
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